Please come back!!! Moni’que I love you so much and have supported you from the beginning. Just wanted to send Mon and Syd some love from Tn!

“Hear no evil! See no evil” be no evils, yet the bi union often two....{Richards pyrotechnics or gene wilder}. My peace is blanco. ❤️ heartache heartbreaker (HART)

Every black person in entertainment needs to hear this podcast!!! It’s more of what we need to hear. I’m going to play it again. These words resonate in my mind, I’ve been preaching the same message for years. I’m so glad you are around so the youngsters/newcomers entering in the business and around world know the real truth. When are we going to realize this is really about us and what we can do for ourselves not what we can get from someone else. We can stand together today and prevail or stand alone and fail. It’s our choice.

Wow, I tell you—its a shame there is no option for zero stars. Mo’Nique is her own worst enemy. She is the sole reason as to why she doesn’t have a career. I don’t know why people keep saying her husband ruined her career. Last time I checked, Mo’Nique is a grown woman who’s perfectly able to make her own decisions. It was her choice to make her non-experienced husband her manager because in her OWN words she said: “I had the big, white Hollywood agent.” And basically that she was screwed over by said agent. Okay I believe her, Hollywood does have a tendency to mistreat people of color. But at the same time this is nothing new. It’s not show friends it’s show business. Hollywood isn’t fair to a lot of people. Knowing your worth is important, especially for those of us who want to branch off into the entertainment business. But the type of demands that Mo’Nique was making was downright ridiculous. She signed up to do precious for fifty thousand dollars. And she said she didn’t at the time care because she loved the story and was doing it for her friend Lee Daniels. Okay well you can’t then say that Lee Daniels owes you money. Correct me if I’m wrong but did Mo’Nique and her foolish husband ask for money on the backend in their contract? The answer is NO. This goes to show that Mo’Nique and that husband of hers don’t know a thing about the film industry. Anybody who is actually knowledgeable about Hollywood would know that you can’t sign a contract, then take the money and comeback later and say you want extra money. Yes it’s true precious was made on a ten million dollar budget and the movie made sixty-three million dollars. Mo’Nique is not entitled to any of that money. The truth is nobody knew that Precious was going to make that much money. It was a low budget independent film that was in obscurity despite it premiering at Sundance Film Festival. It was only when Oprah Winfrey and Tyler Perry got involved that the movie gained traction with the help of rave reviews from critics. That being said Mo’Nique is lying about being owed money for precious. And why hasn’t anyone asked Mo’Nique that if Lee Daniels owe you money pertaining to precious, WHY ON EARTH HAVE YOU NOT TAKEN THIS MAN TO COURT!? Mo’Nique had all the smoke for Netflix but not Lee Daniels? Yeah, you not suing Lee Daniels because he doesn’t owe you a thing. As for the never ending rants about Oprah, Lee and Tyler, I am sick of it. These three individuals have been living rent free in this lady’s head for over a decade. Even if those three people have done harm to Mo’Nique, her inability to move on is destructive to her mental health. Because all I see is a angry, damaged woman. Instead of focusing so much negative energy on these three people, actually use all that energy for something like reviving your non-existent career. But Mo’Nique won’t she’s too busy stewing in toxicity. As I said if those three people truly screwed you over, the best revenge is success. And by doing that is not sitting on a raggedy podcast spouting negativity. All that determination in “exposing” Oprah, Tyler and Lee could be used scouting for actual film talent such as directors, screenwriters and producers to work with. Start up your own production company and eventually take small steps to have your own studio. You producing that movie Blackbird is not a good step in the right direction. It wasn’t a good movie and it’s not even close to Barry Jenkins brilliantly directed drama Moonlight. Align yourself with great Directors and screenwriters. That is the only way Hollywood would welcome you back. But by all means continue to complain and demand apologies from people who don’t care about you. Because at the end of the day Oprah and Tyler are living their best billionaire lives while you go on about how terrible they are. Now I will say Tyler should have never told you that he would put in a good word for you. Mo’Nique did you actually believe that he would? I mean come on he wasn’t going to throw his friend Oprah under the bus to restore you to good standing in Hollywood. That was shady on his part. In fact what Oprah did to you regarding your family was shady as well. Lee Daniels even has shady ways about himself, I agree but you need to let it go. Sometimes in life you’ll never get the type of closure you want from people that wronged you. That doesn’t mean you can’t move on and forgive them for yourself. All you’re doing is poisoning yourself with all this negative energy.

I love how she says what she means with passion and heart. To speak what the majority of the people are thinking, but doesn’t possess the courage to do so.

I Love her Spirit and how real she speaks!

Support for MD, love Monique 😃

I love your podcast. I've followed Monique's career for many years and enjoy both she and Sidney's perspective on relavent issues from elected officials to gay issues to the real Hollywood. Keep the podcasts coming....I love it.

I listen to it during work. I think it’s funny. Mo is hilarious and her personality shines. What they lack in content and rationally, as they attempt to make the podcast relatable to their audience, they make up with humor. “I’m sorry Mo I’m just a little selfish in my space now.” Lol

Thank you for laying on the sword for us. They don't support you now, in time they'll see you were right and be sad they didn't support. It happens to all the greats. Thank you again for your sacrifice.

I truly understand what your saying Monique ..I’m that women that says oh no my man bet not think to look at another women..or a open relationship..I get so angry when I see him look at women on instagram..I be so mad not at him looking but I’m mad cause the women is beautiful and sexy..so I have to learn to work on me..and my self esteem cause I’m beautiful to and he tells me that everyday he loves me..so the women on Instagram don’t get that..so I get it Monique

Monique I love you always have and I am with you on boycotting Netflix. You are and still relevant to me. This world that we live in is the last days most folks don’t know god otherwise they wouldn’t behave and act and posts the things that they do. This mans world that we live in isn’t getting any better. Thank you for this this podcast I listen every day and often repeat episodes. You are a role model.

This is just sad. Just sad

i have always loved Monique, i am annoyed as to why i havent heard of this podcast sooner .. subscribed 💯

I’m so happy and excited that I’ve found this show because FINALLY there is a couple who is open, honest and willing to share how their open relationship works. I appreciate both Mo’nique & Sydney for cracking open the vault of secrecy, lies, and just plain old Tom foolery that has plagued and created “sinners” in the black community for soooooooo long. It is possible to engage in normal (what is normal anyway?) human behaviors of relating, growing and changing AND have a loving relationship. Kudos to the fantastic hosts!

These two are both hilarious and loving and compassionate. Sydney is so loving and kind and Monique is raw. There's nothing but love and sensitivity. SUBSCRIBE ASAP

I’ve been listening to your shows and I must first begin with mentioning how much I Adore your open/close with “your mind is like a parachute, it doesn’t work if you don’t open it” ❤️ Not only is it just Good life advice but it’s great advice leading into your podcast. I’ve been shocked, in awe, proud, surprised, irritated but overall Intrigued by the content you both share. I’m writing this time because as a current MSW student I’m an advocate for therapy as well as support groups. I was literally screaming Sid if you don’t say go to a support group I’m going to start a letter writing campaign! 😩😂 You did! You give sound advice and while I don’t always agree with the perspectives you both have I can appreciate your willingness to at least start a conversation! Thanks so much for that! Please I urge you to continue to encourage US to attend support groups. They are FREE and something for almost every issue. This was by far one of the best episodes. ✊🏽

We’re 86 episodes in and I’m still obsessed with Mo’Nique & Sidney! The discussions are always on point and always honest! Every Monday morning I wake up, the very first thing I do is open the Mo’Nique and Sidney podcast; I get mad when there isn’t an episode on Monday morning. It’s my absolute favorite because of their diverse content, openness, and honesty. Being a 44 year old woman I can only wish to have a man in my life that loves me enough to always be open and honest with me. I too aspire to be like Mo’, I just love her, in her love and respect for her husband & best friend. I’ve learned that their love is about more than being in an “open relationship”, so much more. Keep the open discussions coming, and one day I’ll be up during the live podcast and have the opportunity to call in. Best wishes, and I continue to look forward to listening every Monday. Love you both

I really enjoy listening! They sometimes say some crazy things but overall the message is refreshingly open and honest! I don't have an open relationship but I respect their choices and I'm intrigued by how they manage to make it work all while seemingly genuinely liking each other and respecting each other!

Look forward to new episodes every Monday! Wish it were more than once a week.

I am enjoying their podcasts. Monique reminds me so much of my mother it's ridiculous. I love her and Sydney's energy. We need more positivity in today's society because the world is so full of hatred. Keep them coming!!!

What a breathe of fresh air!

Free speech is such a privilege in this country. This podcast show is an example of that. It gives anyone who desires an oppertunity to express their thoughts unchecked for the most part. Everyone has and is entitled to an opinion and these podcasts are theirs. Delivered in the manner that they want to deliver them in. I understand Monique is a comedian and profanity is what she chooses to use in her craft. Expressing yourself in that manner in every part of your life and especially when we want to be heard dilutes the message for so many that will tune out of important information that may have been useful for them. The profanity does not enhance the message but detracts from it. Save it for the comedy show unless that's all this really is. And this is coming from someone that used to express themselves in this same way simply cause I enjoyed it until I realized I can reach everyone when I cut out the profanity.

I've been hooked since yesterday Monique speaks to me in so many levels

I just started listening to these podcasts and was so inspired ...honestly I would LOVE to see Monique in person ❤️❤️

Ever since I found this podcast, I cannot stop listening. I enjoy the candid conversation and hearing about the loving, understanding, happy relationship between husband and wife. Mo'Nique is a woman, wife, and mother that I can finally relate to. Please make more than one show a week.

If someone in our community will start keeping it real as a celebrity to represent us black strong race and do it the right way then who will the real WINNER out of all the things she went through keep going girl YouTube needs needs this show this real talk

Just started listening today and I.AM.HOOKED! I have always loved Monique but to now her so authentic about any topic she wants with her husband?! Ugh, it's so refreshing! Please keep this coming! Love you guys!

Mo'Nique and Sidney, Thank you so much for sharing your love through this podcast. It is fun, inspiring, and thoughtful. Like you said in your first episode, it's so easy to go through life without any example of a loving, open, and committed relationship. So what a gift it is that you are setting that example and boldly sharing. Thank you so much!

#why?

All love ... keep it going ...

I really enjoy this show..... why because there are things we talk about with out friends; but are sometimes now willing to open up to others about. Things you think are only "you", but others might be going through/or think. There are one or two that were not my cup of tea; but it was NICE to listen to others. 🤘🏾

This is very interesting. I like the fact that you are taking your own issues and using your podcast as a vessel to work through them. Love the interaction and mutual respect that you and Sydney have for each other. I have a suggestion for a topic. So many people label black women as "angry" why do you think this is so? I was watching a video of a mother go into a store and curse out the clerks for asking her children if they were going trick or treating because they were wearing African attire. While I would have been upset about the comment too, I think I would have chosen the high road and told my kids that some people are just ignorant. But when I said that in a room of mothers they looked at me like I was crazy. I just feel you need to pick and choose your battles. What are your thoughts? Sorry this is so long, but I didn't know of another way to get my question to you. Keep up the good work.

These two right here have a special bond that I respect. They tell it like it is baby and sometimes they don't agree about some topics which I like a debate. Love the show and ya'll..keep the episodes coming👍🏼✨

I appreciate this podcast so much! Thank you for sharing your insights. I am in my mid 20s, African-American, and have been married for about 2 years. My husband and I don't have people in our family to look to for marriage advice and this podcast has helped so much. Our conversation and understanding of each other has grown so much. Thank you so much!! ❤️

I've always been a fan of Monique, now I'm a Sidney fan too.

In my opinion Mo comes off as lost and damaged person. I think Mo has some "daddy issues" and past hurt from men that has damaged her. She talks a good game but the truth kept speaking out. So many people want to be married just for the title. Marriage can/will teach two people so much about maturity, loyalty, protection, commitment, teamwork and love, but when you involve others into your union, no matter how much you try to deny it, the bond is damaged. Then resentment, pain and jealousy enters. Unless true love was never there in the first place. People have to stop playing with marriage, and realize when they're just not marriage material or that they married a safety net. Its okay to just stay in a relationship and be yourself. But don't make a mockery of the union, just to have a wedding and a different title. I still love Monique the entertainer and will always support her as a comedian/actress. Keep giving her roles because she really is a great actress.

You guys are great. I'm loving the discussion and the back and forth with you two God bless and keep up the wonderful and painful work you'll are doing

Mo'Nique and Sidney have a great balance of honesty and compassion as well as a great sense of humor. Nothing is off limits or as they love to put it's "OPEN". This podcast is far from what you may expect, but instead is uplifting and eye opening. Get ready to be pulled in, lifted up, and laugh your a** off. Thanks Mo'Nique and Syd. 👍🏾

These two keep it absolutely 100% in sharing their experiences and beliefs. I love the bond they have and the topics are relevant to my life. I may not always agree but I don't have to agree. What works for them may not work for me but keeping an open mind and appreciating different perspectives will open you up to a world of acceptance and peace. Please keep more episodes coming!

I only happened to listen to the show because of a Christian Pastor I know mentioned the nonsense that was coming from this show and that he was going to be calling in to talk about one of the topics, so I listened to hear if they took any calls and if he got to call in. While I did not hear them take any calls on the show, what I did hear was a bunch of opinions based on their own experiences rather then based in truth. Also heard them talking about things from the bible and it showed they had little to no knowledge of what the bible teaches or says yet they made comments about it anyway only showing the ignorance of people telling others not to judge while making judgments with no knowledge of what they were saying. The show is absolutely horrible!

I'm getting ready to binge listen after hearing this first episode. I genuinely feel like I learned so much relationship wise and myself forreal. It was fun and funny, real and genuine. #hooked #tunedin #subscribed

Such a great podcast , I learned so much on the open relationship episode

It's not really for me, I think I'm a bit more advanced than this podcast, but I certainly respect and appreciate it being around. Well done to you two for being so frank and sharing with your selves. It's time to normalize differences. This is great for more religiously centered people, and those who are new and curious to ideas like these.

I wasn't crazy about the context of the show, but if you're looking for a good laugh and have nothing better to do, you've come to the right place. I think the hosts are trying too hard be relevant and forcing you to accept the choice they've made in their "open relationship." I can't!!! My thing is it's not marriage of it's open to all. Have a seat!!!

I love this podcast! It's refreshing and uplifting to hear such an loving, honest and open relationship. Please keep this going!

I listened to the first two episodes today and I LOVED it. Monique and Sidney have a beautiful chemistry. I chuckled out loud several times. I think the the show has a lot of substance and heart. I can't wait to hear the next episode.

I've been in a relationship for exactly one year. I couldn't wait to listen to this because I'm always interested in looking at different viewpoints and would not call myself really traditional although my boyfriend is. I can appreciate this podcast and first episode for what it is. What works for Monique and Sidney is great. It might not work for everyone else but I think it's great they are telling their story. As for me, even from the first episode I took a lot from it. My boyfriend and I are best friends as we have grown together and unbelievably close over the year we've dated. We both invest in each other happiness and understand we have to let each other grow individually. But that under no circumstances involves stepping outside the relationship sexually. I understand couples that do but that won't work for us. I think Sid and Mo knew each other through other relationships and marriages before their own marriage so they had come to terms with it. But if you just meet someone and and start a marriage I don't think sleeping with someone else is acceptable.