Enjoy the podcast! I agere with some comments, I think they need to have the Big "Secret" come out soon enough.. or all the "close calls" are going to get frustraing! (i am 50 and my boyfriend is 39, in the begining i was afraid to tell him; he assumed I was his age.. flattering, but for almost a year i didnt' tell him, was nerve wracking, he found out from a slip from one of my freinds, and THANFULLY he does not care! thx again for the fun podcast!