The Betchelor

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The Betchelor is a Bachelor recap podcast hosted by Kay Brown and Jared Freid of Betches Media. This weekly podcast follows the latest episodes and makes fun of all the ridiculous things the contestants say and do – because honestly, why else watch the show if not for the commentary? For more info check out weekly recaps at Betches.com or follow our Instagram, @thebetchelor.

Recent Episodes
  • The Boys Bring The Thunder
    Jul 22, 2024 – 01:05:17
  • Down Bad And Down Under
    Jul 16, 2024 – 01:04:19
  • Jenn Tran Is In the Building
    Jul 9, 2024 – 32:17
  • It's Shot-O-Clock Baby
    Jul 9, 2024 – 58:53
  • Jesse Palmer Tells All
    Jul 5, 2024 – 35:04
  • Meet The Men Part 2
    Jul 2, 2024 – 55:49
  • Meet The Men Part One
    Jun 25, 2024 – 01:26:32
  • Futbol is Life: Love Undercover w/ Estefania Mendez
    Jun 11, 2024 – 01:11:53
  • 20 years of the Bachelorette with Trista Sutter
    Jun 4, 2024 – 57:43
  • One Girl Stands Before Me: America's Next Top Model
    May 30, 2024 – 01:28:37
  • Dating Troubles Span All Ages Ft. Leslie Fhima
    May 21, 2024 – 42:27
  • CABS ARE HERE ft. Mike ‘The Situation’ Sorrentino
    May 15, 2024 – 01:18:01
  • Tyler Cameron Remains Hot And Humble Ft. Tyler Cameron
    May 9, 2024 – 01:18:57
  • The Birth Of Tiffany ‘New York’ Pollard: Flavor Of Love
    May 1, 2024 – 01:02:42
  • The Apex of Bach Nation ft. Katie Morton
    Apr 24, 2024 – 01:11:39
  • Kaitlyn Bristowe’s Season: The Birth Of Bach Nation
    Apr 16, 2024 – 01:20:14
  • The Friends Department Ft. Susan Noles and Kathy Swarts
    Apr 9, 2024 – 51:07
  • Joey + Kelsey Interview, End of Bachelor Awards
    Apr 2, 2024 – 01:07:56
  • You Did It Joe (Bachelor Final Rose)
    Mar 26, 2024 – 01:22:07
  • Joey Wins The Night + Lexi Tells All (Joey's Season Women Tell All)
    Mar 19, 2024 – 01:29:40
  • The Three Wise Women (Joey's Season Ep 9)
    Mar 12, 2024 – 01:07:02
  • Joey And The Simp Daddies (Joey's Season Ep 8)
    Mar 5, 2024 – 01:12:39
  • If Everyone Likes You, Nobody Loves You (Joey's Season Ep 7)
    Feb 27, 2024 – 01:01:16
  • Joey Wants A WOMAN (Joey's Season Ep 6)
    Feb 20, 2024 – 01:06:48
  • The Maria Effect (Joey's Season Ep 4-5)
    Feb 14, 2024 – 01:17:51
  • The Tortured Girlfriends Department (Joey's Season Ep 3)
    Feb 6, 2024 – 01:05:47
  • We Are So Back (Joey's Season Ep 2)
    Jan 30, 2024 – 01:10:46
  • Messy Reality TV Is Back! (Joey's Season Premiere)
    Jan 23, 2024 – 01:19:27
  • The One Where We All Fall In Love w/ Joey Graziadei
    Jan 18, 2024 – 18:57
  • Joey’s Cast Preview
    Jan 17, 2024 – 01:18:45
  • Bach Nation Drama + The Golden Wedding
    Jan 9, 2024 – 50:57
  • 2023 Betchelor Awards
    Dec 14, 2023 – 01:23:28
  • Three Hours of Cringe (BiP Season 9 Ep. 10)
    Dec 8, 2023 – 01:01:31
  • THE REAL GERRY TURNER (Golden Bachelor Finale)
    Dec 1, 2023 – 01:03:26
  • The Longest Rose Ceremony Ever (BiP Season 9 Ep. 9)
    Dec 1, 2023 – 58:40
  • Jesse Palmer, Host of The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, BIP and The Golden Bachelor (So Bad It's Good With Ryan Bailey Crossover)
    Nov 21, 2023 – 52:13
  • Roast In Peace (BiP Season 9 Ep. 8)
    Nov 17, 2023 – 01:09:12
  • Big Dog Gerry ATE (Golden Bachelor Ep. 8)
    Nov 17, 2023 – 47:33
  • No New Friends (BiP Season 9 Ep. 7)
    Nov 10, 2023 – 52:54
  • Our Queens Have Been Crowned: Women Tell All (Golden Bachelor)
    Nov 10, 2023 – 52:35
  • Big Dog Gerry Turner
    Nov 7, 2023 – 36:19
  • Hurricane Kat Strikes Again (BiP Season 9 Ep. 6)
    Nov 3, 2023 – 01:10:06
  • Are You My New Daddy?! (Golden Batchelor Ep. 6)
    Nov 3, 2023 – 50:34
  • Karma Is My Boyfriend (BiP Season 9 Ep. 5)
    Oct 27, 2023 – 57:11
  • The Hometown Hustle (Golden Bachelor Ep. 5)
    Oct 27, 2023 – 41:11
  • Paradise Life Ft. Sean McLaughlin
    Oct 24, 2023 – 30:56
  • The Truth Box & Beach Talks (BiP Season 9 Ep. 4)
    Oct 20, 2023 – 01:04:09
  • Gerry's In A Pickle (Golden Bachelor Ep. 4)
    Oct 20, 2023 – 01:05:14
  • Shock, Awe and Boredom: Love Is Blind Finale
    Oct 14, 2023 – 36:51
  • Poo Babies, Man Tears, and Cold Women (BiP Season 9 Ep 3)
    Oct 13, 2023 – 57:58
Recent Reviews
  • callalily13
    but
    Ft. Worth > Dallas.
  • EmmaAnne42
    Bach nominations
    Villain of the season: Sam M. Mr. Congeniality: Marcus Himbo: Austin
  • mariaproko
    Used to love
    Jared truly has some of the weirdest, most unsubstantiated takes that just go on and on and on. I find myself screaming internally WTFFFF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT at least once an episode. And Kay just lets him ramble and rant it’s so hard to listen to sometimes
  • KyannaG
    Another amazing betches podcast
    As an avid jtrain pod & uup pod lover I loveeeee Kay and Jared’s back and fourth. The conversations are very structured, with a little sprinkling of off the rails chit chat which I love.
  • jen_ash
    Love you guys
    Big Joey gotta eat! Big Gary gotta eat! Woof! Woof! I am histerically laughing every single episode! The secret sauce is here and whoever does not find this a fun podcast has no sense of humor and no personality. If you want all kind, sweet, therapy-like talk about reality shows, go to another podcast (I follow that one too) but this one keeps it real. Kay, let the jealous girls hate. Jared, let the prudes hate. I’ve been listening for a few years and this review is so overdue, thanks for the fun commutes to work!
  • SaraSabol
    Jersey Shore
    Jared’s breakdown of the Jersey shore is SO accurate. As someone who grew up going to OCNJ and not Seaside, it is very much different worlds. I am also a New Jersey native who went to college in 2009 in PA and would always say “I’m form NJ, but not Jersey Shore” 😂
  • wisechick92
    I Love the Betchelor
    Not only is this my go to podcast for all things Bachelor, I’m loving the recaps and other topics they tackle during the off season. Revisiting “New York’s” beginnings on Flavor of Love is hilarious and brought back so many VH1 love show memories! Jared and Kay are funny, keep it relevant, and incorporate new pieces that are in the same realm but different enough to be fresh. Keep it coming!!!
  • michelletherunner
    Love the Podcast
    Love the podcast! You two are great!
  • Aaaaasay
    My Bachelor Fix
    I definitely only listen to this to hear their take on a controversial or drama-filled episode of Bachelor / Bachelorette. Still the best podcast for this, and still my go-to.
  • Lolo13419
    Love Susan, NOT Kathy
    I find Kathy off putting
  • gryffindorg
    First time
    First time listening and was appalled by how they consider Daisy (from the bachelor) like a clout seeker just because she was genuine to herself. Straight up mean
  • BigRay21
    Hilarious
    I love them! They’re hilarious and I’m glad they give honest and entertaining opinions. Not sure why people would complain about them being negative. I so appreciate that they aren’t boring, who wants to listen to a podcast saying everyone on the show is amazing. If anything be meaner haha. Never change Kay & Jared!! 💋
  • ilovetheroaylfamily
    Love you guys
    This podcast always hits and is so funny, light and brings some realism back to a crazy show. I do miss Fat Carrie Bradshaw and wish yall would do a cross over or guest appearance or something. A girl can dream!!! But always a great listen either way.
  • Cringe Harrison
    Updated review
    I think I gave the podcast 2 or 3 stars when the podcast got new hosts and just updated it to 5 stars since Joey’s season started. I really like the insights Jared shares. It feels like the betchelor looks at the show with a sharper eye now if that makes sense. Love that they brought back fun stuff like naming the episode and FMK at the end. — Previous review: Growing pains? Change is hard. I miss the Cringe Harrison award, reading creative reviews that win merch, and songs about sponsors (Skinny pop!). I realize things have to change with a new host (Miss Derek, but FCB is fun) and COVID, but please bring back or make new fun bits to change up the recaps!
  • Zekerella
    Mean girls
    I used to be a religious fan of this podcast, for years! But lately I feel like the last year or so they’ve just turned into 2 really toxic mean girls. I’m all for poking fun of reality tv! But it seems it’s just a platform to absolutely hate on EVERYTHING! saying the golden hour podcast is ridiculous and saying they’re just going to talk about how to make the text on your iPhone bigger- is straight up ageist and rude (the golden Bach ladies are AMAZING and very beloved among many!) it seems nothing impresses them and they usually just hate everyone. I recommend “my mom and dad” podcast personally for recaps, they’re fun, real, not rude, still poke fun, but it feels possitive and not “mean”. Question for Jared and Kay: who hurt you?
  • Bachelorito
    Sound issues
    Your voices were phasing in and out so much I couldn’t listen anymore!
  • Bogeyluvr
    I tried
    It sounded fun but I cannot take the fact that the guy’s microphone cuts in and out. It sounds like he is wheeling himself towards and away from the mic over and over and sooooo off putting and distracting.
  • THANKSASHANDBRIT
    <3 Jared and Kay
    These two are my favorites to recap the show with. I started watching the show after watching Jared’s bachelor livescreams and now get to listen to their commentary. They are hilarious!
  • Gaupeg
    Voice volume
    Your voices hi in and out
  • Jack 204
    Jared needs help
    The show reviews are fine. But Jared needs to stop screeching. Also, he makes crude references to ejaculation every show and often multiple times. It’s kind of gross and middle school’ish. He might need some therapy for that. At a minimum, he needs to try to inject some wit, cleverness and originality to his humor.
  • Lizduf12345
    Love love
    LOVE the show but the new ads are sooooo long. Totally get they need to be in there but if there’s any way they could be a little shorter, it just really takes me out of the episode and I find myself stopping listening sometimes. Otherwise one of my favorite parts of the week!
  • NeesyG
    All
    Love the pod! Only complaint Jared’s mic is not as loud as Kay’s and be kinda fades in and out at times.
  • Mec223657743
    Yes
    Jared describing Jesse’s wife with a newborn at home with spit up all over her is so spot on while he’s playing tennis in Jasper. One of my favorite things I’ve heard and so relatable.
  • Claire78854
    Clayton
    I love love this pod! I don’t always agree with the takes (I am disabled and the guy I was dating before the major health event that disabled me definitely left me because of it. There are statistics that show ~70% of men will leave their partners during a major health event vs ~30% of women), but that’s ok! Jared and Kay have amazing banter and I look forward to the episodes every week. You guys should look into the Clayton paternity thing or even interview him if possible. It was crazy! The woman who accused him of being the father of her child was never even pregnant! Truly wild
  • thebonesaretheirmoney
    Time to find a new bachelor recap pod
    I stopped listening to U Up because of Jared. I stuck with the Betchelor bc I like my silly little bachelor recaps, but Jared's misogyny is hard to get past. Obviously, he always talks about how the Bachelor is better than Bachelorette because he thinks catty women are funnier than catty men - just a sexist viewpoint. And you can just say Galentine's Day is cringy - you don't have to say some whole piece about how "sad, single" people have co-opted it. He tried to get ahead of it, but he definitely downplayed a contestant's issues with endometriosis and her past relationship. It doesn't matter whether or not her fertility issues were why the guy ended the relationship - that is the reason he gave her, which is awful regardless of it was the real reason or not. Why is he playing devil's advocate for some random contestant's ex? He's so focused on making all men "not the bad guy" at the expense of believing women's real-life experiences and feelings. It's just gross how obsessed he is with putting women down. And Kay (much like Jordana on u up) does not nothing to challenge him. If Fat Carrie returned or they replaced Jared with another cohost, I'd still listen. But at this point, I'm done consuming any Jared Fried-related content.
  • nfjrjjsldijrbqhsvsbdb
    Stop the likes
    Omg Jared PLEASE stop saying “like” every second and rambling on about things other than what you’re talking about. The anti vax story was offensive and had absolutely nothing to do with what he was trying to relate it to. Love Kay and could definitely do without Jared’s annoying voice and opinions.
  • Patty Lynn Bach
    Love it
    I love this podcast & Kay & Jared too. From Kay’s weekend recaps to their funny takes they are great. Big dog’s gotta eat! 😂❤️ I use this in day to day conversations now.
  • Dharmaamy
    Enhances The Bachelor
    I heard you on Ryan Bailey. This is my first season of classic bachelor- Golden was my OG. This podcast explains a lot and makes me laugh!! The Bachelor is psychological torture.
  • imnatthomas
    Don’t even watch the show and love
    Jared you nailed Philly
  • Caitkulinn
    Jared needs to go
    Love Kay!!! Tough to listen to Jared. His energy is giving misogyny lite. Like please get this straight man off the show or bring back Chris, for the love of god.
  • jokerloverx3
    Birthday
    5 stars because Jared just used my bday as an example 😂🎂 (Jan 18)
  • Nadia_christina
    Millenium listener
    Isn’t Kaitlyn bristow from Canada? lol
  • MeganE1105
    The best of the best!
    Love this podcast! I started listening to this podcast about 6 months ago and it’s definitely one of my favorite bachelor ones. Kay has such a fun bubbly personality and Jared is hilarious and quick witted! Great duo! As someone in their mid-30s, I can relate to so many of their references and comments. 😀
  • Trinacrosby
    Know your facts
    My biggest pet peeve is when people are talking as experts on a subject and don’t know their facts.
  • Bshsjbdhs
    Love this pod!
    The only reason I watch anything bachelor nation is because I love this pod! Kay and Jared are hilarious!!
  • kaylaaaaaaaaa322
    Fun, lighthearted, and real
    A good listen! My only complaint is I wish there was more. Stuff like Q&A’s, rewatches and other shows to cover Nonetheless love Jared and Kay!
  • asdfjjfsadghj
    Jared has been ruining episodes of other podcasts I love
    Is this guy a nepo baby or Sami’s boyfriend? I’m so glad this was recommended—now I know where Jared Fried came from. During his podcast publicity blitz, he has made my favorite shows unpleasant to the point of skipping the entire thing because of his guesting. Having not watched the Bachelor for a while now, I would never guest on this pod. Jared (and everyone else too)… please stay off of pods where you have no knowledge. At the very least, let the experts speak.
  • Ajndisnam
    Please fact check
    Jared & Kay desperately need a better producer, intern, or someone to fact check them. Kay just said that Aven didn’t make it pass hometowns & didn’t want to propose to Rachel… Which isn’t true at all. Aven was in the final 2 & Rachel and him broke up literally because he didn’t want to propose to her. It’s so frustrating to listen to them be so wrong about actual things that happen.
  • Cattyanaaaaa
    Constantly getting info wrong
    Aven was runner up btw. And he actually didn’t want to propose. He and Rachel got in an argument about it. One full of micro aggressions that pretty much ended with her “don’t yell at me.” 🙄
  • Casual listener1111
    Worst bachelor pod
    The casual misogyny from both Jared and Kay isn’t even a little bit cute.
  • podgal1625
    Fav Bachelor Recap
    My favorite bachelor recap podcast BUT WHY did you have a random person do the interview with Jesse Palmer?!? That is not what this show’s subscribers wanted, we wanted Jared to interview him!!!
  • Anadx98
    Done with betches
    Betches needs to get rid of Jared. He has become so problematic and bitter over the years.
  • joajean
    My top Bach. Podcast!
    My fav. I could probable listen to these 2 chat all day—funny, fun. Love!
  • thisisridiclous
    Gerry apologizers
    Beyond the fact that he’s always screaming and she goes along with everything he says, this latest episode post the THR article was more frustrating than usual. They completely glossed over the fact that Gerry’s whole pitch was a lie. All his lines that started with “I haven't …. since Toni died” were blatant lies. So according to these hosts, this just makes Big Dog Gerry a typical relatable man. NO! This makes him a liar who is nothing like the man he and the producers drummed up.
  • Emily Tuscano
    PEMDAS
    Jared knows what PEMDAS means fiVe5️⃣🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 ^^i dunno when I wrote that but I’m always mostly high. BIP season9 episode 9 - the perfect duo at its best 😭😭 please someone with tiktok expertise 🤌🏻 clip this to the actual episode and then sell it to ABC who can then sell it to NBC who can use the entire thing as the first ever SNL reality mock 🧍🎤🫳🏻 I’m a genius But Kay & Jared’s intelligence, charm, wisdom & good looks are far superior🧎🏻‍♀️ 🫶
  • Esme Isabella
    Please stop switching hosts.
    I subscribe to this show for Jared and Kay. Their dynamic. Super bummed for anytime they aren’t both on the pod at the same time and even more disappointed to see a Jesse Palmer interview on the feed with some rando host. This pod could be a top one in bachelor pods but they chaos of not sticking to the two main hosts is going to be its downfall
  • eileen334455
    G-dawg
    So mean about Gerry and the final Ladies. Why watch if you are going to bash peoples ages?
  • HORRIBLE BAD VERY BAD
    Used to be better
    I used to enjoy their podcast but now it feels like Jared complaining the whole time and I don’t feel like he understands the concept of the show. Also, he was insisting Kat I worked in marketing when her job is a nurse. You'd think if you were hosting a podcast on a topic you’d at least be knowledgeable on it. Don’t think I’ll be listening anymore.
  • TClaire1123
    Jared is an amazing interviewer!
    Jared hit it out of the park with his Gerry Turner interview! 10/10!! So good. Just loved every minute of it.
  • Djancdj
    LIB REUNION
    Will there not be a LIB reunion recap episode???
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