Reality Gays: Trash TV and GayDD with Mattie and Poodle


Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including, TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Too Hot to Handle on Netflix, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show...well you're welcome.

Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life-coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. The only thing more certain than a K-1 Visa or a venereal disease, is the fact that Jake and Matt will keep you laughing at these lovebirds while also judging their choices. #BlessTheirHearts But none of it is mean, because Jake and Matt get it. At the end of the day, aren't we all just looking for our little piece of love?

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  • NatalieTB13
    Mattie and Poodle are the best. I love their funny yet compassionate takes and always look forward to new episodes!
  • stefy32593
    WOW! I have been listening to y’all since the beginning of quarantine and have fallen in love even more every week. Thank you for helping bring some sunlight into such a dark time. From the stories back home, to the advice and the laughter you guys give you really are top notch I truly feel like were all a big family on the sissy squad and on Patreon and we have you two boys to thank!
  • Rebecca313
    Keep Going Queens
    “Alexa, remind me to leave a review”
  • Holly-olly
    Love these Queens!
    I was screaming the name of Boys on the Side because that movie is the besssssttttttttt! I cut my hair and bleach it blonde to look like Drew Barrymore in high school, but sadly: It did not make me look like Drew Barrymore. Lesson learned. ❤️🤣
  • Pleasechooseanother1234567890
    Keep goin’, queens!
  • ehpAK3
    Favorite podcast!!
    They’re the funniest. Keep going queens!!
  • lindsay5678
    Love you guys!!
    Keep going queens!
  • Fun_Size10
    My favs!
    Best and most fun podcast ever! Love their relationship and how they call each other out on everything but in a loving way! Literally laugh out loud daily!
    Keep Going Queens!
  • KeaLani808
    Laugh Giggle Repeat
    If you’re happy, but want more happy...listen to RealityGays!
  • not a witch of WeHo
    Keep Going Queens
    I love these girls! I have been an avid podcast junkie for years. This is the only podcast I listen to now! I ❤️you Mattie and Poodle!!
  • xAsukaX
    My favorite 90 Day Fiancé podcast! Keep going Queens!
  • moniveeee
    Makes even the worst day enjoyable
    I am so thankful for this podcast and these guys. I am an avid listener and just can’t get enough of Mattie and Poodles. Their recaps are hilarious and I love the relationship they have with one another. I just went through a terrible breakup and turned to Reality Gays for a little distraction. When I tell you guys they were able to make me laugh as I was balling my eyes out grieving my relationship. It really doesn’t get better than that. I love this podcast so much and I highly recommend if you need a laugh or a pick-me-up!
  • Jtrev027
    If you’re looking for a good time, you’ve found it. Matty and Poodle deliver week after week with all the laughs, dragging the best reality trash through the mud and making you feel like they are your bff. I love the fun and laughter and appreciate the genuine sincerity and effort to educate at the same time. Not only are these two hilarious they are good people and spreading light into this dark world. The ultimate queens 👑
  • Kymora29999
    Keep Going Queens!!!!
    Laughing my a$@ off!
  • EG148
    Real Funny
    Y’all work HARD!! Thank you for all the laughs!!
  • Librarychickd
    Worth the listen
    These two leave me laughing every single week!
  • Tru Love 65
    I love listening to you two! Makes my heart happy. ❤️❤️
  • linzy bee
    This show is so freaking funny. Honestly I watch the shows to listen to this podcast bc they are way more entertaining than the shows themselves. The best thing about this podcast is when they break out into song. LOVE IT!
  • G anonymous SG
    A Quarantine Must Have!
    I look forward to listening to the pod more than watching the show. They are so funny and have been a much needed comedy break in quarantine.
  • shoost_
    Love the show
    Keep going queens!
  • la conchita chiquita
    Como se dice “me encantan “
    I watch 90 day fiancé in Spanish but I listen to you guys for the reviews. Keep me laughing while I’m at work in the fields. Thank you for keeping me laughing.
  • Kliabfhej jdjekahha
    Amazing podcast!
    Very funny. Worth a listen
  • Mi-marie
    Absolutely LOVE this show!
    I just got on board about a month ago and I’ve enjoyed every episode since! I laugh so hard I’m darn near wheezing. As a Black woman, I really appreciate the transparency & willingness to learn too.
  • asc0502
    jake and mattie!
    i listen to these guys so much that theyve become the misbehaved, fun and smart brothers i never had. amazingly entertaining:) love them
  • eye.digress
    All good things must come to an end...
    I am an original listener, and I can no longer partake and financially support Matt & Jake. At one time, they were the highlight of my day, but it's clear their success has gotten to them, and they have become bolder in sharing their political views and their disdain for anyone that doesn’t agree with them. While I share most of their opinions, I don’t come here for that, and the behavior is gross. Head over to Watch What Crappens; they know how to keep their personal opinions out of a podcast about reality garbage TV.
  • emserm
    Funniest Podcast!
    These men make me laugh out loud every episode! They also have gotten me into Tv shows that they cover. Such a fun and upbeat podcast! Every should listen to these 2 funny friends
  • L.C.Allstead
    Keep going Queens.....
    Thanks Queens!
  • seerosey
    Poodle’s mom reminds me of my mom
    For real. It’s eerie!! Thanks for the laughs Matty and Poods.
  • xxJaneKxx
    Keep going...
    ...cumpsters! Xoxo.
  • sissysquadforever
    Yes yes yes
    Don’t pay attention to the very random negative reviews saying Mattie and Poodle are racist/ableist/____ist. If anything, they do their best to educate on preventing that type of speech! The negative reviews sound an awful lot like cancel culture. These two queens are hilarious. If you don’t like sex jokes and personal anecdotes then don’t listen. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself laughing all by yourself while listening! Keep going queens!!
  • aishmal
    Love love love!!
    Keep goin queens!
  • DjStickers
    Super Funny
    Entertaining, theatrical and never boring!
  • Ros3bug
    Keep going queens!! 🗣🗣🗣
  • Megan pee
    These insecure white men pander to actual white supremacists in the Facebook group. Do not support them. They are racist, ableist, and transphobes. They are deathly afraid of being canceled, but you would have to be famous to be canceled. Garbage people.
  • Jenn the Wicked
    How things have changed
    I lived you guys. At the start you were funny, snarky and just on the line of appropriate. At some point it changed. You crossed the line to offensive. If Matt has to say you guys are told you talk to much crap on the women every other episode, you might want to process that. You are not cool for making jokes about disabilities. Half hearted apologies do not make the underlying issues okay. So better. You could have been great.... you failed.
  • Mo T 13
    Such a fun podcast
    I really enjoy this podcast, it keeps me laughing!
  • Animalshapes
    Should have stopped listening when they said the n-word. Should have stopped listening when they tried to defend talking about rapist Paul because “it’s funny.” Should have stopped listening when they continued to diagnose people on an edited reality tv show with no qualifications (M is a non-practicing “therapist” and J is a “life coach”) because no qualified mental health professional would ever ethically. Finally stopped listening when BIPOC members of the “Sissy Squad” were ignored and told to “be civil” in the face of blatant racism and prejudice. Don’t suggest you listen unless you’d like to hear self-righteous Jake’s multitude of bad takes while Matt eggs him on— with zero apology when they make mistakes, despite constantly saying “come at us.”
  • Elysemace
    Hey Siri
    Remind me to leave a review for the gays! ❤️
  • awesomefab
    Super disappointing
    It use to be something fun to listen to but now not so much. They barely talk about the episode and spend most of the time going off on tangents about their own stories that don’t pertain to anything. 90 day cray cray is much better. Their episodes are shorter only because it’s not a bunch of random filler. Last time I tried to listen I couldn’t get through all their nonsense, it just felt gross.
  • mostly glasses
    makes my commute 100x better
    I really need a ringtone of “LADYVILLE BELIIIIIIIIIZE!”
  • Stephanie Frederick
    Hilarious and insightful
    These guys are hilarious and surprisingly insightful. They fulfill my need for opinions about my trash tv and also give me things to think about for why these people on my tv are such disasters.
  • KdawgWatchesTV
    Generous hosts
    The Reality Gays are one of my favorite podcasts. There is no shortage of content. They primarily focus on the 90 day universe, but branch off into other shows. They share some of their Patreon content which is nice “to try before you buy”. If you’re budget conscience then there are still a lot of free options to you as a listener. The theme song is amazing, the sad southern stories are hilarious, and the commentary is entertaining. The light and positivity needed during these unprecedented times.
  • Mcphe107
    So funny
    I listened to rivermales even though I had never seen the show after listening to Mattie and poodles 90 days podcast. Love it!
  • Ding_Ho
    The show has really gone downhill. Really enjoyed the spontaneous show tunes and improvised routines but it has essentially become a Maoist struggle session. I’ll miss you guys, but the constant attention to possibly offending someone has become too much. Good luck guys, I’ll check back later.
  • isoheartmusic
    Go Queens!
    Warning: Don't listen on a full bladder, you might pee yourself. The 90 Day Fiancé Theater is incredibly hilarious. Love Mattie and Poodle.
  • Anthro Liz
    It took me a little bit to get into this podcast, but it has really become my salvation for the past year. It’s the first show I listen to when I am in the mood for my trash tv podcasts. Once you learn the guys’ lingo and banter you get it and are hooked on their irreverent yet intelligent analysis of current reality shows. Consider this review your Christmas preset Poodle and Mattie and KGQ!
  • amandaa1981
    Hearts of gold and laughs for days
    Mattie and Poodle are the squirrel friends we all need in our lives. They set us straight when we pronounce words wrong and they sincerely care about each and everyone of their Sissies. These two go out of their way to make us laugh in this time of Covid producing more entertaining content than any other pod I listen to. Genuine love for what they do shines through each and every episode, even if Poodle has forgotten his Feals and Mattie feeds a dog a lip. I love these guys and their impromptu songs and especially the 20 minute banter at the beginning- don’t cut it boys- I’d listen to your commentary on paint drying. Love and light and Keep Going Queens!
  • Exodus and Incense
    I love these guys!!
    This podcast has legit gotten me through the toughest times during the pandemic. I laugh until I cry. So good and entertaining. Just ask Carl’s wife..
  • #NotBabyGirlLisa
    Keep going queens
    Omg I can’t stop laughing every episode. Love love these queens!!!
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