Reality Gays: Trash TV and GayDD with Mattie and Poodle


Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love TLC's 90 Day Fiancé. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show...well you're welcome. Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life-coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. What's going on up there, y'all?

The only thing more certain than a K-1 Visa, is the fact that Jake and Matt will keep you laughing at these lovebirds while also judging their choices. #BlessTheirHearts But none of it is mean, because Jake and Matt get it. At the end of the day, aren't we all just looking for our little piece of love? Follow the gays: Jake @jakeitorfakeit & Matt @theMattMarr

And listen to all their other shows, like Sweet T: A Southern Charm Podcast and Bitchcraft: The Unauthorized Sabrina Podcast--all at their podcast network,

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  • Julianab3
    Love these two
    What’s better than looking like a lunatic cackling to yourself on walks or in the grocery store?? This two wackadoos keep me cracking up every day and I love them so much for it!!
  • trains-n-tiaras
    My Fav Podcast OKrrrrrrrrrr 😉
    I look forward to listening to Mattie & Poodle during my commute time everyday! They keep me laughing and lift me up before getting to work and on the way home. I LOVE the southern stories and can totally relate! Keep up the good work 😘
  • Mendle14
    Can’t get enough
    Keep going queens!!!!
  • liiizdiiiaxzzz
    Love luv lervvv
    Keep going QUEENS!!!! Ps I can only finish a milkshake when I’m stoned and legitimately forget what I’m doing
  • Isewvintage
    Love these guys so much. My funny company on runs, while getting ready, in my car- the best!
  • rganthon
    Keep going queens!!
  • SarahTheCatLady
    Brings me happiness and makes me laugh
    These two make me laugh and are filthy and sex positive! Having a bad day, put on Poodle and Jake and prepare to have that frown turned upside down. I even love their 10 min announcements before each show breakdown because it gives me more time to enjoy their banter. I even listen to them recap shows I don't like because I enjoy their GayDD. Keeps going queens.
  • nothxs not again
    Keep going queens!!
  • Becca Fox
    Absolutely love this podcast!!! I always listen at the gym and it helps me decompress and just have fun. The best
  • Runninglady58
    I listen to a lot of reality tv podcasts but you guys kill it in a way many others are lacking. Your insight as a therapist and life coach are fascinating and inspiring and I find myself hanging on every word. Oh and you are hilarious and beautiful singers!!
  • Mom56749
    LOVE the podcast. Amazing, I could listen to them talk about paint drying & enjoy it. Facebook group is not as great as they claim. I was mom-shamed pretty hard in there and the moderators didn’t care.
  • ashh2093
    Favorite podcast
    This podcast always puts me in a good mood! :)
  • yellow ball ranch girl
    I have waited a while before I wrote this review. Just didn’t quite know what I wanted to say because I am overwhelmed at times by your choice of words. But I realize that I love you both unconditionally. I look forward to each new episode and I really do laugh and smile. Your musical parodies are the best! Your family stories are so much better than program you are recapping . Most of all it’s your friendship I love most. Thank you for doing episodes even though you have a lot going on in your personal lives. You all are so good I don’t watch any of these shows anymore,I would rather listen to your take on the “lonely hearts”. Thank you. Jan in Austin. The unconditional part is because I have accepted you will say anything and I still listen!
  • gandfnene
    All the stars!
    I want to give y’all all of the stars in the universe! Love, love, love your podcast!
  • shelberryyy
    Best podcast to brighten your whole life
  • Cryssl
    Keep going queens!
  • CortneyLynn05
    Keep Going Queens!
    I find myself laughing out loud at work often listening to these two! They say what we all are thinking when watching these shows! It’s a must listen!!
  • Meg607
    Love Poodle and Matt! Funny, sassy, and I always learn a lot from them! ;) Keep going queens!
  • Brandy Ga
    This is officially the only podcast I’m in love with!!! Bring me ALL the cuss words and ALL the nasty. I’m grown and I’m here for ALL of it 🥰
  • merliddell
    lost a listener
    glad i signed up to hear bashing of Reagan. Every chance you all get :you bash conservatives. Just so you both know…… some of us republicans do have souls… and fully support love of any kind: male/male female/female male/female. …whoever you love is love. cancelling immediately.
  • Dudu7770
    Solid podcast for reality tv recap
    Keep going queens! 🏃🏻‍♀️🐐
  • keepcalmNsignon
    Love these queens
    I laugh through throughout each episode. Love listening!
    Great Podcast!
    Keep going queens ♥️♥️
  • ThatsMamaTune
    Cringe Tears 🤣
    Matt and Poodle sucked me in with their hilariously colorful recaps of 90DF and now I’m hooked! The amount of content they put out is amazing and the laughs are constant. I started watching other shows they cover just to hear their takes - and I have no regrets. WARNING: listen long enough and you’ll find yourself singing the themes songs… mama Mia here I go again… and repeating the same, SAME jokes. Keep going queens!
  • nikkilfrank
    I love these queens
    I love these queens more than shoulders mcgee loves an off the shoulder floral top. More than porn granny loves to smack her lips and offer a check. More than Angela loves to scream MiCHAel into a phone. More than Andrew loves to gaslight. More than Darcy loves to show off her boobs (which is a lot). Long story short, these queens brighten my day and often teach me things I never knew most of which I never wanted to know. I recommend ear buds only and solo car rides for this podcast but god is it funny. Go ahead queens and keep being awesome.
  • Griff917
    These queens make me smile even through the darkest of times. I literally laugh out loud every time I listen. I’m currently studying for the bar exam and listening to old episodes of this show is the best reprieve in the world. I never thought I’d pay $8 a month to listen to people recapping reality TV but it’s worth every penny. Poodle with his snarky quips reminds me a LOT of myself and Matt would basically be my ideal best friend… I love their dynamic. Keep going queens!!!! PS - the sMothered episode where they do numerous Smothered Theatre segments with Mary and Brittanni had me on the FLOOR I thought my landlord was gonna come check on me
  • pazamp4
    Keep going Queens, I love you both ❤️
  • Axelsmommy26
    Love my Matty & Poodle! I’m a faithful listener since the beginning! Love hearing their takes on my fave reality shows. It’s like hanging out w my friends every week!! Love y’all and all your hilarious songs and characters… even love your sad southern stories! 🥰KEEP GOING QUEENS 👑 ❤️
  • Bworrell88
    Keep going queens!
    Cringe Tier love ✌🏼
  • j_babygrl
    Keep going queens!!
    Love you guys and your show - keep up the good work! :)
  • Sunshineface3
    Love these guys
    Keep going queens
  • mwyatt82
    I’ve recently been struggling with anxiety feeling low and poor self esteem. Your podcast helps me reset and just laugh and brings me joy. God bless your silly catchphrases and characters like moneybags, Carl’s wife etc. keep going Queens. Lots of love from WI.
  • Pammie26
    My favorite podcast
    I love listing to you guys, poodles mama jovi impersonation cracks me up !
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  • ET1982-3
    At its best, it’s great!
    I like the show, a lot! I think the relationship between you two is what carries it and gives a fresh take on what sometimes can be a mundane product. It comes across like a well executed 90Day improv when it’s at its best and I love that. My biggest gripe with the show is the assumptions you make about the people in it and the scale that you do so. It’s one thing to analyze their behavior within the context of producer driven segments, which you frequently remind us that they are, it’s another thing to make potentially harmful comments about the people behind the aforementioned producer driven segments. Implying that Ronald’s mother is afraid of him and pulling scenarios out of thin air to support that was the latest example of a leap of assumption that doesn’t seem totally fair or relevant to the episode. There are enough villains within the context of the storyline that you don’t need to go on speculative tangents about the characters as you frequently acknowledge the show is edited in a specific way. It seems uneven.
  • Sdunn21
    Mattie and Poodle say everything I’m thinking about these hot messes of human beings. It feels like I’m having a (very one sided) conversation with friends about the episode. They read these lonely hearts for absolute filth, and I LOVE it. Keep. Going. Queens.
  • miggleg
    These Two ROCK
    As a reality tv queer binge watcher, I must say- these two are incredible with how funny and in depth they are. 100% worth the subscribe and listen. I CANT STOP BINGING THESE EPISODES AHHH
  • CatBosscher
    This podcast gives me life!
    Keep going queens!
  • Celeste Seki
    The screaming queens of my dreams!
    Is it possible to be emotionally dependent on a podcast? Cause I’m deep in it ya’ll. I sing along with every gaydd musical interruption and my high school drama club President self feels seen again for the first time in years. These two are getting me through some tough times and I love them for it. Keep going queens!!!!
  • Genevievers
    Absurdly funny
    Quick witted humor delivered by sincerely likable hosts. Somehow Mattie and Poodle breakdown silly reality shows into insightful entertainment. Listening to this podcast is the favorite part of my week!! Keep it going y’all!!!
  • JJOdom
    Keep going queens!
    This is my go to podcast. Love you guys so much. Thanks for being you! Keep going queens!
  • caren21
    Keep it going queens!
    Thank y’all for providing so much laughter during this last year. 🙏🏻
  • MRD2686
    The best
    Keep going QUUEEEENS!
  • missmargarita8604
    The sass!!
    I love these guys! Keep it coming, y’all!!
  • pianocat 67
    Best podcast in the ENTIRE world!!!
    By far the funniest podcast ever, Matt and Jake are two hilarious by nature guys who spread joy and laughs to all their listeners. They are natural entertainers!! Listening for over a year, stopped my Sirius subscription and listen to their podcast 2 hours a day on my commute. They have been a blessing during the pandemic, I know they will always bring a smile to my face. Keep going queens, this is for poodle because we all know how much he likes a review :)
  • Raychie1121
    KEEP GOING QUEENS - I recently lost my dog unexpectedly, and the silence is absolutely crippling. Putting these queens on makes me not feel so alone. LOVE these two, thank you for being a reliable, loving, accepting light on the darkest of days.
  • cab242
    Love this podcast. Perfect for a good laugh. May be too much for straight people. Keep going queens!!!
  • Amy90Day
    We have a portable Bluetooth speaker that we carry from room to room at home when we’re not road tripping in the car with our favorite queens. 90 Day isn’t complete for us without their analysis. M and P have brought laughter to challenging days, and while I don’t agree that Andrei is at all physically appealing, I think these two are fiendishly irresistible. #Addicted.
  • Scuba Smurf
    Hilarious AND insightful
    As a big ole 90-Day fan I tuned into this and after 30 minutes was like, what is this nonsense?! Detours and ramblings about penises??? (And I’m from SF) When will they talk about the show?? And THEN I keep listening and laughing and I love the Southernness, the insights, the maniacal laughter, and, most of all, the spot-on analyses of of personality and relationships. It’s that perfect combo of hilarity and profundity.
  • Laura1032
    I will watch any show these two cover
    The perfect outlet for my trashy reality tv obsession. I don’t know what I’d do without them. Keep going Queens!
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