Seeing Other People

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Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Join host Ilana and both well-known and anonymous, unfiltered guests as they navigate the complexities and realities of modern dating. From first dates to breakups, they’re not afraid to bare all as they dive deep into what it means to be single, in a relationship, or anything in between. Whether you're looking for love, or just want to laugh and commiserate with others, tune in to explore the rollercoaster that is the ever-evolving world of dating. And in the meantime, follow along @seeingotherpeople to feel a little less alone.

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  • Adrie 💕
    Love it
    I love this podcast and it is the only podcast I listen to on a regular basis. It is so relatable and I am happy to have it. Dating in NYC can feel so lonely, so it helps me feel a little less lonely. I love hearing people’s stories on the unfiltered episodes. It even inspired me to reach out to Ilana as well! Looking forward to future episodes! Highly recommend
  • Jdubljevic
    Great overall!!
    Unfiltered is my favorite episode kind, I love learning from actual life stories. So many of the guests were incredible!! I do however agree with what someone else wrote that some advice is a tiny bit generic and not a fan of the pov- I made this mistake, but because I am telling you, you shouldn’t now. I feel that’s not how humans work hah. Would love to hear the specific things you did to overcome certain thoughts or challenges vs. a simple - well you shouldn’t do that it’s a mistake. I noticed that with Life in Progress too and it’s not great. Everything else is why I keep on listening!!
  • JoBrosFan!
    Ilana is So Good!
    Ilana is incredibly wise and brings on amazing and diverse guests. This podcast is such a great one, highly recommend 💞
  • rachael8700
    Too many advertisements
    She was doing advertisements for ten minutes. Took forever to get to actual content. No thanks.
  • rm3112
    Such value offered
    Ilana is amazing! Her podcasts gives you all the tips and tools you need to date with success and find your person! I loved coming on as a guest on her show and would highly recommend seeing other people if you’re feeling stuck in dating!
  • Weiniss
    15 minutes into the podcast and still no discussion of the topic
    I hate it when podcasters take the first 15 minutes bloviating instead of getting to the topic. Sheesh. Moving on.
  • Lovely Lady Lydia
    Honest
    Been listening to this one for a while and such a fan! Love the Thursday releases in particular. Keep up the great work, Ilana!
  • Tactics Talk
    Empathetic
    Such a great way to share about the anxieties of dating Ilana is honest, but has the empathy to make it work well
  • someyoungguy2
    Wise beyond her years
    I was a guest on Seeing Other People and had the easiest, most interesting conversation with Ilana about the biggest mistakes women make in dating. She’s so thoughtful, compassionate and intuitive that it makes me happy she’s giving so much information away for free to her audience of young women. I hope to be invited back for Round 2, but regardless, keep following Ilana. She knows what she’s doing.
  • elotaylor
    Authentically Sincere
    Coming out of a relationship I searched for podcasts to help me make sense of what I had experienced and reintroduce me to the world of dating. Seeing Other People did just that. The host is so authentic in her sincerity. There are no gimmicks or games; just living and dating with integrity. Keep up the wonderful work!
  • Glenn912
    Big fan of the show & various perspectives
    I love this podcast! Ilana brings in a variety of professionals, friends and real single people to talk about the modern dating landscape. As a guy with most friends in serious relationships, it offers some commiseration when you hear the real life daters on the Thursday episodes. I also love when ilana does the dating app tips too. She seems so genuine and authentic in wanting to help people. Highly recommend it.
  • Jeremy Lowenthal
    Favorite Podcast
    Best dating podcast! I’ve listened to a half dozen and this by far the most relatable and down to earth. Keep it up!
  • Belto15
    Best podcast
    Ilana is truly the most generous, genuine, and thoughtful podcast host there is. She is introspective, self-aware, and reflective. She invites interesting guests, and engages in dynamic and thought provoking convos. She has created a community for people dating, engaged, marries, and in between to be there for each other. I can personally attest for how much Ilana cares. I messaged her after listening to the podcast, and we became friends. I know I’m not the only listener Ilana has befriended
  • Skunk1234567890
    Most Generous and Genuine Host
    Ilana is truly the most generous, genuine, and thoughtful podcast host there is. She is introspective, self-aware, and reflective. She invites interesting guests, and engages in dynamic and thought provoking convos. She has created a community for people dating, engaged, marries, and in between to be there for each other. I can personally attest for how much Ilana cares. I messaged her after listening to the podcast, and we became friends. I know I’m not the only listener Ilana has befriended
  • Anonajz
    The only podcast I listen to
    Ilana is a superstar. Her podcast does an excellent job of bringing in different perspectives and experiences, and covers an incredible range of topics concerning or tangential to dating. I don’t listen to podcasts, but when I found out she has a podcast, I started listening to it and I continue to do so religiously! I can attest that this podcast is for everyone, including the guys, to at the least find reassurance that dating can be hard and frustrating, other people are dealing with similar challenges, and it takes work (and community, like Ilana’s!) to recognize and be steadfast in our self-worth.
  • Pirate king2488
    Great Podcast with many viewpoints
    I originally was listening to a male dating coach podcast but I wasn’t liking what he was suggesting and I heard an episode where he had Illana on the podcast discussing the problems with modern dating and I was expecting the guy to blame women and Illana to blame men but I was genuinely surprised that Illana said it’s both men and women’s fault. I’ve mainly heard about men blaming women and women blaming men so hearing someone actually say it’s both of our fault made me want to listen to her podcast. I started listening to her podcast and I have enjoyed them a lot. Some episodes are not the best but that doesn’t mean it’s not good for someone else. I hope having the boys on becomes a standard (whether once a month or something) because I believe it’s best to have both perspectives and I enjoy the episodes where you have the guy’s perspective on dating. I enjoy your podcast and have learned a lot about modern dating. Keep making great podcasts and helping people with seeing other people!
  • nothing44
    Stopped Listening
    The host consistently tries to make everything about herself even when she has guests on the pod. I used to enjoy listening but the past couple of months haven’t been as good as the initial episodes. She has also said some things about single people like that “it’s the most demanding full time internship trying to be friends with a single girl”… try being friends with a girl getting married or one that has a kid. I’ll listen to other podcasts over this one.
  • jenna silv
    The best dating podcast out there
    Ilana’s approach to dating is so healthy and refreshing. Thank you for bringing us these episodes! Can’t stop listening
  • RecentListener
    I feel so seen!
    I am loving the episodes with the real life daters! It is so relatable and I don’t feel alone or crazy!! Thank you Ilana!!!
  • AnonymousAndrewPodcast
    My go to podcast!
    Ilana’s seeing other people is one of the first podcast I started to listen to after my last break up she help me get through the grief and hurt and the pain and also inspired me to start my own podcast her content is informative, creative and done very well. Good job, Ilana Anonymous Andrew Podcast
  • jen_laurenn
    Ilana is so authentic
    Ilana is the most authentic and organic podcast host EVER. Could binge these episodes all day long.
  • Dan1777999877
    Love this show!
    Seeing Other People has quickly become a favorite in my feed! I love all the engaging conversations, insightful content, and actionable ideas. I truly enjoy every single episode!
  • Sussu_2020
    Great podcast
    Hi Ilana , I love your podcast and all the insights that it brings to dating life! I also think that advertising is part of the show and it keeps the show running… my only thing is that it would be better if the pause for advertising didn’t interrupt the conversation. It would be better if you introduce them between the questions. 😉
  • Photoguypixman
    Great Listen
    Really love the unfiltered openness you bring to your episodes. The Thursday shows are always enlightening. Keep up the great work!
  • Ejeannette
    There is potential
    There is potential in this podcast on the deeper topics of romantic and interpersonal relationships. You can definitely tell it’s a newer podcast despite. There are some generic advice that she gives. Would like for her to have someone else discuss the child free choice and dating in the workplace. Going to keep giving this podcast a chance for the newer 2023 episodes.
  • @hold_the_fries
    Obsessed
    I look forward to every episode! Ilana has the best advice and perspective on things. Highly recommend!
  • michellepillepich
    so relatable!
    Ilana is like a chill best friend who is so great to listen to and encouraging while also being real with you!
  • Believe it! Coach
    Great insights
    This podcast is great for all around advice and insights into the dating world. I learned so much from the episode on being friends with exes. Thank you for the great guests and topics of interest.
  • miranz.h
    Love the podcast but I wish the sound was better
    Maybe it’s just me but I always have to turn my volume almost all the way up to hear the interview but the ads are a normal volume. But I LOVE the content.
  • D.N. Harris
    Solid podcast
    Pragmatic advice from the perspectives of real people dealing with the intricacies of dating and relationship-building. A solid podcast!
  • sammyyzzzz
    Favorite podcast
    Love everything about this show. Ilana keeps it so real and asks such great interview questions to get the most out of her guests. 11/10 for anyone navigating modern dating!
  • J3NN_1F3R
    Mostly good
    Overall I like the pod but like many relationship pods some of the advice is pretty garbage. Guests and hosts are mostly just agreeing with each other on stances. Currently finishing the myth busting episode and no one is pushing back on any opinions and the take about over sharing are pretty bad imo. And I think on the Sam and Parker episode one of the guests mentions Jordan Peterson.. yikes.
  • BCESFF
    Seeing other people rocks
    Ilana is an awesome host and is great to listen to. Can she possibly get more male guests on to talk about the male side of dating? Some episodes it feels like she just brought on a woman to spend 45 minutes bashing the male gender and it doesnt really help anyone
  • ariannarappy
    best podcast ever!!!!!!
    Ilana is super talented and was born to host this podcast! She is so relatable and emotionally aware. I HIGHLY recommend listening!!!
  • tals2424
    Super amazing and relatable!
    First heard Ilana speak on @elevationnation! I Iabsolutely loved the episode and found it so incredibly helpful! Now ive started listening to some of her dating episodes and as a single 27-year-old living in NYC, I already feel like I have gained an entirely new perspective and new set of tool on how to go about dating. Looking forward to listening to more amazing content :)
  • broadway-babe
    Fantastic dating podcast
    I have been OBSESSED with Seeing Other People lately. Alana is a great podcast host; she’s engaging, and she knows how to direct the conversations with her guests for maximum impact. As someone in the throws of dating, I appreciate Ilana’s positivity (I need that dose of positivity), but that she also keeps it real. Ilana encourages listeners to keep an open mind, but the pod addresses the challenges and disappointments that come along with dating. It’s also binge-worthy podcast content; Ilana is consistently engaging, but the episodes have a lot of variety.
  • hlount
    “I don’t want kids” ep
    This is such an important topic, and the guest that was interviewed was horrible about speaking about it. It is not a rare choice to be child free, and she spent half the episode talking about how she’s “not like other girls”. Also, I could not stop cringing at her saying that she “prefers non Americans” only to say she wants to date white British guys?! Lol okay. You sound so woke. Please interview someone else about the decision to be child free- there is so much more to say
  • AmyChanPingPong
    Love this podcast!!
    Such fun topics and amazing guests!!
  • abba1134
    The best dating podcast
    I love this unfiltered dating help!!!! So helpful :)
  • Dateaholic
    So glad I found this
    Love how real Ilana keeps it on every episode. Great guests and great perspectives. 11/10 worth the listen
  • MickeyFour
    MUST LISTEN
    Ilana is a must listen! My hot streaks are thanks to this pod!
  • Kris9876543210
    BEST dating advice
    BEST dating advice. Everyone needs to listen!!
  • Will1717171717
    Great listen
    I use this podcast for dating advice all of the time! It’s a must listen.
  • natasharae123
    The best dating podcast out there
    My go to podcast for any and all things dating/relationships!! Ilana is an amazing host and always brings in the most relevant and interesting guests!
  • Andrew M Dunn
    Realness!
    It's so refreshing to hear a podcast with real people getting into real things. Grateful for this podast for giving voice to different life experiences out there :)
  • yoga realtor
    Professional Dater
    Love, Love, Love! You guys are the real thing!!
  • Lennord
    Great topics!
    You are a great host with the guests and the unfiltered episodes. One feedback is to turn up the recording volume. It’s hard to hear the episodes when around town. Thanks
  • maria.f.c
    Go Ilana!
    I’ve been listening since the beginning of the year and have really enjoyed hearing Ilana come into her own as a solo host (LOVE the addition of unfiltered). I’m a college student and even though I’m in a different stage of life than the majority of guests, I still take valuable information away from each episode :) Keep doing a great job!!
  • Apalx3
    Refreshing!!
    Great podcast! I love how refreshing Ilana's take on dating is. She covers a lot of topics that are so helpful for people navigating the dating world.
  • EmmiFortin
    Helpful and impactful
    Ilana is great at sharing insights from her own experiences along with inviting guests that inspire meaningful conversations on this pod. Really loved the episode on grief because it challenges the social norm of what the stages of grief are and how we should deal with it.
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