Relationship Advice


I Do Podcast interviews today’s most successful and inspiring relationship experts, therapists and couples. Hosted by Chase Kosterlitz and produced by Sarah Kosterlitz, I Do Podcast is all about inspiring young couples to create a fulfilling and happy relationship. The weekly podcast will give you great advice to improve your relationship and fun ways to keep the spark alive. Each episode Chase interviews amazing relationship experts who share their knowledge on building successful and lasting love. The guests provide daily tips to improve your relationship, advice for young couples, amazing books and resources and much more.

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Recent Reviews
  • Cr43e
    The guest callers are interesting however, the podcast hosts sound very scripted as if they are reading a script verbatim.
  • Lizzilvr
    Great podcast
    I love the varied subjects presented in this podcast. And I really love the host. He’s got such a calming, kind and compassionate presence. He’s a great interviewer, too. JUST FYI, THE SPARK MY RELATIONSHIP WEBSITE IS UNABLE TO BE REACHED BECAUSE IT KEEPS SAYING IT’S NOT SECURE.
  • Mylilhurricane
    If you want deeper relationships…
    This is such a great podcast about enriching and deepening relationships, no matter what kind of relationships they are. We all might wish that great relationship would be easy, but they take work, and Chase (along with Sarah, who is now behind the scenes of the podcasts) gathers guests who have such useful perspectives and advice on how to do that work. Definitely recommend!
  • kmata123
    My favorite podcast
    Hands down the best podcast I’ve listened too has helped me in so many ways. I love how chase brings on educated people to give real advice
  • Rabinv92
    Hard to listen to
    I find it difficult to keep up with the point of things. Their direction is good, but the format and organization is all over the place. They take a very long time to get their point out.
  • TheOtherSid
    Listened to ~5 of their recent episodes. Learned nothing interesting. Just interviews with people saying basic information
  • CAM9966
    This content is absolute gold
    I just started listening yesterday and cannot get enough! I feel like I’ve had so many aha moments and have loved all of the guests. Thank you for providing this content to enrich people’s relationships and lives. This is great work.
  • Sicnic10
    I’m here and I need it
    Searched podcast in relationship advice as I am going through 2 weeks of massive difficulty in my relationship. I found you and I must say, love it and took a lot of notes and even contacted an author. Thank you having this show to give me the advice I need.
  • ABarlow1
    The best relationship podcast
    I love this podcast
  • JenJen387
    Not good
    Hard to listen to. Everyone keeps dodging the question and saying the same verbatim like this is a good question or this is important. These conversations lack substance. They keep saying how sex is important and stating the obvious. But I never struggled with sex it always had to do with communication and acting on emotion. My partner doesn’t listen to me when I’m angry. Although I love him I’ve become abusive and can’t let him go.
  • Hr0010
    Love it!
    Great advice. I am a single mother who keeps attracting the same type of man and this podcast has helped me open my eyes and practice better strategy.
  • Lshely
    After listening to just a few episodes this podcast literally saved my marriage. Mind you, there was only one aspect of my marriage that was failing, but it was a huge aspect. I’m also doing the 14 day couple challenge and highly recommend. This podcast is every bit of amazing. Again, it only took a few episodes but I fully intend on listening to them all. Thank you ♥️
  • Niua2003
    Great Topics
    I find the guests interesting and I find Chase’s voice soothing and easy to listen to. He’s kind and a good listener - which is a lovely characteristic for a host. (Especially for a male host.) He treats all guests with respect; never talking over anyone or bending their words.
  • stoli_stoli
    Is ADHD affecting your relationship?
    Grateful for this episode! Opened my eyes on so many things. Thank you!
  • CaliforniaLily
    Much needed!!
    So grateful to everyone involved in this podcast, was really excited to get turned onto it and to absorb all the wisdom, insight, and authentic experiences and stories. Thank you for the light that you are in a podcasting world!
  • sunsign79
    Why only young couples?
    I think the show has great topics but why in the about info does it say this is for “young couples”?? Can’t all marriages benefit from this information? This feels a bit ageist…
  • DCA1314
    Love the topics
    While I really like this show and the topics, Chase sometimes highlights his own experiences in a way that is not in service of the show. For example, Dr. Green seemed to be talking about toxicity much more dangerous and severe than that which Chase "totally experienced". She tried to discuss the power imbalance that a victim must identify, for example, but Chase derailed that extremely vital conversation to circle back around to his own experience, which he did not describe as a power imbalance at all. This type of thing has happened a few times, in a few episodes. Chase should be more neutral and let the topics take the lead.
  • Wv Reagan
    Episode 343
    Vanessa and I were honoured to share the stage with Chase. He and Sara have been in the marriage coaching space for many years and have helped many couples. Their podcast is informative, insightful and well worth your time!
  • Novel-lover
    Love the content of the podcast but the ad is too long
    Hi, thank you for the podcast and helpful discussions. However, I find the add is way too long to listen through the episode. Hope this is somehow resolvable. Thank you!
  • bubsmb
    This is really helping me with working on myself to help work on my relationship as well. It is easy to give up but this is what has made me realize that it’s important to fight and fix things instead of trying to just take the easy way out and leave
  • afroandglasses
    Highly recommend
    I look forward to the different topics that come up. Enjoyable listen!
  • DrWyaFish
    Great job with all your super episodes helping couples strengthen their relationship!
  • EmmiFortin
    Relatable topics and tangible advice
    I like the variety of relatable topics this podcast offers, along with expert guests that provide tangible steps you can take to help you with whatever you’re struggling with. I recommend this pod for anyone, even if you’re not in a relationship!
  • AB20221
    Love Dr. Jamison!
    Loved hearing about Dr. Jamison’s experiences and ideas. Can’t wait to try the marriage retreat.
  • @ASFCoaching
    Love the different perspectives!
    I appreciate that this podcast looks at all different influences on healthy relationships. Every time I listen, I learn a new perspective and way to view my marriage.
  • JR101310
    First relationship podcast , great!
    This is the first relationship podcast I’ve listened to. I really enjoy it and find it useful. I’m 26 and in a relationship - I love listening to the hosts and guests in the show. I feel like I’m really growing my emotional intelligence and gaining new perspective on how to be the best version of myself for a relationship and for life in general. Great tool kit for relationships and for self love too. The hosts also have a nice calming way of speaking I enjoy.
  • cmc2921
    An absolute Goldmine of information thank you so much!!!! Sincerely cc
  • xbxhdjdhdhdhdhhdhd
    A bunch of bunk
    The people giving everyone advice on relationships got divorced. Calls into question all of the bunk advice they gave to the rest of us.
  • Looking for love1
    Do you take emails?
    Hi I was wondering if you can give me some advice. So I like this guy, everyone hates him but I think that he is sweet and kind, and just wondering what I should do?
  • jamesk201
    Please I need advice
    I just discovered through the help of a pro tech guy @ blonde_hacker_ on Instagram, that my wife has been cheating on me , he helped me gained access to her phone without her knowing and now , I discovered she has been having sex with someone else, please what do I do?
  • EricaBushwell
    Awesome podcast!
    Chase & Sarah, hosts of the Relationship Advice podcast, highlight all aspects of relationships, growth and more in this can’t miss podcast! The hosts and expert guests offer insightful advice and information that is helpful to anyone that listens!
  • 1Drumhead
    Relationships Advise
    Listing to this podcast is some good information. I’m dealing with a friendship relationship myself. It’s difficult because I like the person but they doesn’t feel the same way. Need help and good advise.
  • Cassie__Sue
    I love this podcast but the therapist that’s on 223 (and she’s been on others) doesn’t offer any tools, suggestions or techniques on how to connect instead of argue except for finding a therapist. Not helpful and disappointing :(
  • MsMeganK
    I really enjoy this podcast and the perspectives it shares.
  • doctapepper
    If chase would talk less it’d be 5 stars
    I know you have addressed this but you took it as she needs to speak up and talk more. Which yes, but you need to stop talking so much. You take double the guests time just pseudo-intelligently repeating what they said.
  • Loadmastermike
    Incredible Podcast !
    Some of the reviews I have read are needlessly cruel and misinformed ! You guys are amazing and have so many wonderful guests . I love the neurobiology of the human brain . The guests you both host unpack that in a very understandable and practical way . My marriage of 21 years has been on regrowth journey so glad to have you both part of it !
  • @juliana.truesdale
    A must listen
    Covers critical topics for loving relationships, many of which also help improve as individuals. Great strategies and examples without a lot of fluff or chit chat.
  • kbbbbbb bbb
    Tons of great information.
  • DvGuts
    Nice podcast but...
    I think the podcast could use a bit more of Sarah and a little less of Chase. Interesting interviewee on hypnosis, but good lord Chase, you called what he does “Hypnotism” like 3 times!
  • xnfmly
    Content Rich
    I thoroughly enjoyed the episode with Dr. Jordan Wiggins. She gave actual step by step instructions for asking for what you want. The steps can be applied in varying situations. Definitely an episode for everyone.
  • Krph
    Variety of info
    I’ve been listening to this podcast the past year and enjoy the variety of guests they have on, and the choice of topics. I recently heard the “wired for love “ episode with Figs O’Sullivan and I just loved it, so much that I listened twice to get it in my brain. Thanks for help with something we all need! Highly recommended
  • Tarafromwisconsin
    Chase and Sarah are the BEST!!
    I have started listening to your podcasts since the beginning of the year. I love all the advice and great information! It has really helped me communicate and understand my partner better. Keep up the great work! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
  • it'smeandmyselfandi
    Chase is awful! Also don’t join love tribe
    I used to love this podcast mostly because of the experts not really the hosts (chase is so awful. I think they should split up!) but I especially don’t like their new “love tribe”. Most podcasts give you SOMETHING if you donate $2/month but they don’t give you anything. They just say you feel good for supporting them. What?! The levels should be $2 no ads, $5 bonus material $7 extra episodes, etc. Really disappointed in them. Especially in a pandemic when money is tight for people.
  • 4HoundsVT
    Keep it up!
    Amazing podcast with great content. My partner and I have learned so much and look forward to every new episode.
  • Tamarab1980
    Helpful and Interesting Content
    This podcast has great content and impressive expertise to share. I appreciate the thought and effort to bring on guests with a wide range of relevant relational topics. The suggestions they offer are realistic to weave into day to day life. I love and sincerely appreciate the new inclusive logo!
  • matchamochi93
    Mental Health Stigma Isn’t Supportive
    In your most recent episode about attachment theory, the woman interviewed mentioned her husbands past with “borderliney, crazy women”. It’s disappointing to hear this kind of stigma and internalized misogyny. This is a societal issue that people often don’t quite catch, which is why I’m addressing it in this comment. For an episode so focused on trauma based psychology, it is sad to hear a woman putting down other women dealing with trauma and mental illness in the same breath. People need support, conscious healing is possible, and this attitude towards a trauma based mental illness is harmful - especially when the conversation is based on trauma healing. It’s cool you’re having these conversations at all, keep at it! Just some input I think is important to note.
  • Marks🍕
    Helpful and knowledgeable
    It’s been hard finding podcasts with relationship advice that goes truly in depth. This podcast has taught be a lot about how to handle, and look at relationship situations differently. My current relationship has started to struggle, and they’ve really helped me learn how to push through and work on our struggles to improve and strengthen our connection 💜
  • AJames08
    Incredible content
    Love this podcast. I just recently discovered it l, but I’ve been going back to older episodes and love every one. I think couples and singles can really gain something from every episode. It’s like free therapy.
  • kooli--oh
    Not sure
    First time listener and was turned off with the first 6-10 minutes of “membership” you won’t get hear everything if you don’t pay, yada yada. Too much. Not a fan.
  • Whereismyhead
    Great consistent relationship show
    This is a great, rather quick listen for good tips and advice and to hear another perspective on young relationship advice, coaching, and building. The guests are thoughtful and the insight is good for continuing to build your own interpersonal skills.
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