Do You F*cking Mind?

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Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.

On Mondays we dive into episodes with a combo of neuroscience and pop pscyhology: your pep talk and mindset hacks are all here. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.

And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.

 

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  • Blueyes1976
    LOVEEEEEE
    Absolutely love this pod! I’ve been a listener for 2 years now and can contribute much of my healing journey (along with other modalities) to this pod! Love Alexis and her raw realness. Always keeps me laughing and questioning myself and those around me. Alexis you rock and I love what you put out into the world!
  • Sammie B. (:
    Don’t know where I’d be without this podcast
    Alexis’s podcast has been my therapy for the last few years. This definitely helped me find myself and my voice without the fear of judgement from others. Not to mention getting through two really hard breakups and navigating my twenty’s. I support this podcast 100% and recommend to anyone who wants to be a healthier version of themselves. THANK x1million! xoxox
  • Sarahípyt
    BEST Life changing Podcast!
    The only podcast that I think is worthy of sharing!! I love podcasts but I loose interest easily… this one though, has changed my life, I continue to listen to it while I strive to be a better me. In fact, it helps me be a better me. I recommend this podcast to every single person I know.
  • liv1478
    THE ABSOLUTE BEST OF THE BEST ON HERE.
    I started listening in 2022 when my therapist recommended this podcast. This is by far the best podcast I have listened to when it comes to developing a better you. A lot of podcasts in this space come off superficial and overly positive when life is not that way. Alexis tells it how it is and she makes you feel less alone in the disaster that life sometimes is. She shows you how to move past it while also teaching you fascinating things. She showed me the woman I could be and how life doesn’t have to control you. Love you Alexis and love this podcast.
  • M.Cubbage
    Five stars isn’t enough
    Could you be any more amazing! Thank you so much for this awesome podcast. So incredibly helpful.
  • Ceegeezy
    GIRRRRLLLLLLLL 🥹
    Alexis, girl, you are on fireeeee! You have blessed my life for the past 3 years. What an angel sent from heaven, you are! I’ve been in so many relationships prior to your podcast and OH how I wish I would’ve come across your podcast sooner to avoid all the toxicity I’ve been through. As much as tough love is hard to hear, you deliver it so seamless. I didn’t grow up with a lot of advice that I saw fit for me and you’ve changed that. I tell everyone about your podcast and call you “My Poddy Therapist” and usually get a couple giggles every time. If you haven’t started listening, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND, especially if you are an OVERTHINKER and HOPELESS ROMANTIC like me. There are so many good tools and resources at your fingertips all said by this wonderful human who I love from afar so dearly. Hi from Las Vegas, NV (from the states) !! You rock!! ✨🥂🙏🏼🤍
  • kloppatto
    highly recommend this podcast!
    I can’t say enough good things about this entire podcast! No matter what you're going through in life even if you are just looking to grow and learn. Helps you navigate adulthood by giving solid advice dealing with mental health, physical health, careers, relationships, etc. It’s a must listen!
  • shiftin.
    This girl!!
    Okay, so I just started listening this week and god it is so nice to listen to a podcast that’s REAL and RAW! She is so raw and unapologetically herself! I can’t stop listening! Thank you so much for being yourself and having that potty mouth because I also have a potty mouth and it’s so much easier to follow. I appreciate this show! 🫶🏼
  • adrianajavalos
    BIG SIS VIBES
    absolutely a must recommend so everyone i know. i love that alexis is so raw, real, and unfiltered. she’s not here to tell you what you want to here, she’s here to tell you what you need to hear and to help you get through it. i remember i accidentally stumbled upon DYFM podcast when i was searching for self help related content and listened to a few and none have amounted to this podcast.
  • Savannah2701
    Confirmation after confirmation!!
    This podcast is going to confirm a lot that you ALREADY know! Absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE this podcast 11/10 would highly recommend. Sending each & everyone of you love. If life is tough right now just KNOW something better is coming out of it. You have the power to choose your mindset & perspective 🫶🏾
  • Gracemj987
    CHANGED MY LIFE
    Please listen to this podcast! I check everyday for a new episode. Seriously I think Alexis might be the smartest person ever. Thank you Alexis !!!
  • Bonnie dotz
    Real as it gets
    Best self help podcast… ever
  • nikkiburnrubber
    Listen to Alexis, her advice is educational and entertaining!
    Part of my morning routine now is to listen to Alexis, found out about her podcast from my daughter.
  • theylovekit
    Mind Reader!
    I absolutely love Alexis i feel like no matter what she posts I am in tune with it. And she is so raw and pure about it all at the same time. She is my favorite morning podcaster and couldn’t have been happier to find her 2 years ago. If you are reading this Alexis, what is your social media I would love to tune into other medias of yours! ❤️‍🔥🥰 IG: livinglikekitana
  • helshourbagi
    I wish I heard this sooner
    I stumbled upon this podcast last week !!! I wish I heard this earlier maybe 20 years ago , I love it ! So far on episode 5 , so relatable !
  • AnnaJ0205
    Thank you!!
    Hello, I just want to say thank you. Your podcasts helped me and I’m sure so many other people. I’m going through some tough times and since I started listening to your podcasts I feel a lot better. I still have a long way to go before I will heal fully but listening to you and your advises makes my day better so again thank you!! ❤️
  • Amy SoCool
    Mind Blown 🤯
    Alexis, thank you for being a realist! Your advice and knowledge is mind-blowing! It’s just what we women sometimes need to hear. Straight Shooter. Tell it like it is. Straight from the horse’s mouth. No skirting around the issue, let’s tackle it straight away. Thank You for being you! You get it!! ❤️ Episode #180 it is the advice I have been looking for. Keep it real! 👊#lovefromUSA🇺🇸
  • jhill831
    Heartbreak hacks
    Just came upon your podcast during a tough time and this episode was EXACTLY what I needed to hear! Thank you so much - excited to listen to the rest
  • dyfm♥️
    Changed my Life♥️
    New and hesistant to adapt to the podcast world....I began the search for something to help me mentally with my life. Alexis has absolutley changed my LIFE!!! July 4 ironically 2022 I was alone and started episode 1 and have not quit. She has given me every reason to believe in myself for the first time in my life. I have NEVER been so comfortable in my own skin and knowing I will never meet her thats ok but just beyond thankful for Alexis♥️ Steve
  • Ryajen11
    So thankful for this!
    I’m new to podcasts and my adult daughter sent me a handful to follow, including this one. I’m so glad because I am slowly working through two years of episodes. Keep up the pep talks too, as long as bandwidth allows. You rock!
  • Nittnatt22
    You’re a beautiful bean inside and out💜
    I can’t express how much I adore and appreciate your podcast and your overall energy! Every episode I end up sharing with as many people as possible because I feel like I learn so much, I am so inspired, I’m encouraged to keep growing and I just can’t get enough! You explain things so intelligently, you’re entertaining, and I feel so grateful to have found your podcast! 💛
  • CarLar79
    Totally hooked
    Love your podcast Alexis!! My divorce coach recommended I listen to your ep on visioning and I was hooked. Listened to at least 10 in a week and can’t wait to hear them all. Appreciate the tone—passionate, super intelligent, irreverent, and kind.
  • bugsfmmaui
    Point blank and supportive
    Love it so much. She’s relatable, point blank, and loving! So good thank you for this amazing content I’m so glad I found this.
  • RR🥝
    absolute legend
    could not survive my current break-up without Alexis insight and tough love. she is an absolute angel for those of us stuck in toxic relationships.
  • Tumblrupdate
    Highly Recommend
    Alexis’ advice has been life changing for me. I have gained so much self confidence and have learned about setting boundaries. Thank you, Alexis!
  • CeCe878
    Such an asset!
    Could not love this podcast more! I took off working in the summer for the first time in my life to reduce the stress in my life and focus on getting back to myself and I could not have asked for a better podcast to compliment and help me achieve those goals. Love Alexis and everything about this podcast! I would highly recommend it!
  • frivolousjosh
    Use of racial slurs should not be tolerated
    In episode 154 she drops the phrase “Chinese whispers” like it’s perfectly okay to say that. It’s NOT and it was totally unnecessary in the context of the show. Use “telephone game” next time. You owe your Asian audience an apology for this and you should re-record that segment. Very disappointing Alexis.
  • charlie884633
    Love love love!!
    I wish Alexis was in my family! This podcast has been a gift and I share it with everyone I love.
  • monitabonita88
    Amazing
    Love this podcast for life. She spits nothing but facts and I can’t stop listening!
  • Az152856sh
    Really enjoy!
    Lots of good messages, host has a lovely engaging personality.
  • garciiikkkkkka
    Much gratitude
    Thank you for sharing your wisdom through these difficult times. Makes me feel a little stronger & comfortable with myself.
  • dominpam
    Alexis is simply wonderful
    Just found her and have listened to five episodes! Nonstop! She’s just so good. It’s like listening to your life coach on the go! Found this podcast at the perfect time! Definitely getting the book and listening for more improvements! Thanks Alexis!
  • Fartcakedhhfdsghu
    The swearing
    The amount of F words are so SATISFYING!!
  • carasmith667
    Life-changing (literally)
    Hand down the best podcast I’ve ever listened to.
  • TiMa01
    Amazing from start to finish
    I am SO glad I found this podcast. Alexis not only has the knowledge but also the life experiences to really help you through some rough times. I will def be listening to this on repeat for a while!
  • mper8884
    Listen, grow, laugh
    Love this! I would also love an episode on how to approach a friend that is in a toxic relationship. I’ve got one in denial 🥲
  • SummerInTheCity89
    LOVE THIS PODCAST!
    I love how upfront and genuine Alexis is. After listening to her everyday for the past month I feel like I we are actually friends! Her podcasts are full of valuable info and I love listening to her!
  • amcmahonRN
    Amazing and relevant
    I want to listen to every episode all at one time. Love them all. I absolutely love that as a professional, Alexis doesn’t feel the need to act a certain way. She’s authentically herself and that’s what makes her podcast so addicting.
  • Gr3ttyS
    Sending love from Salem, Massachusetts!!
    I’m usually not one to write reviews but this podcast has literally become part of my self care weekly rituals. Thank you Alexis for sharing your wisdom and enlightening and relatable content each and every week.❤️
  • Truebeautywithin
    Fun Podcast
    I have been enjoying this podcast. Love how Alexis keeps it so real and gives great tips and motivation.
  • coronavirus facts
    Bad language
    Sound very uneducated. So sad she couldn’t use variety of vocabularies. F was the primary word used to describe almost everything
  • ToddNWI
    My wife is a covert narcissist
    I love your show. I’m so glad to hear that I am not crazy! Thank You, Todd - close to Chicago
  • Seré Santa Ana
    This is the kinda poddy that changes lives…
    1. I wanna be Alexis’ friend. She is so encouraging, uplifting and helpful for many different topics (boundaries/relationships/working out/career growth etc) 2. She is blunt, straightforward and backs everything by scientific stats & fact. 3. Alexis makes it easily digestible and still so fun and empowering! My friends and all listen and we adore this podcast.
  • GrandMasterGauge
    So great!
    Super great content and great host! If you like it straight up and in your face, this is for you. It’s so great, It almost feels if I’d give away a spoiler alert about how great her linguistics come across. So enjoy, I definitely do! 5+ stars
  • KasChrNic
    I needed this!
    I have never left a podcast review despite thinking I should, but after listening to your 2nd episode on Breakups I wanted to say, Thank You! You provide such a constructive slap in the face that most of us need and I am so glad I found this podcast when I did.
  • deejaywish
    love this podcast!
    Thank you for putting this podcast out. I love your unique blend of real talk, great advice, and humor while we learn interesting new things about ourselves and others. Your personality shines through and makes listeners feel as though we’re listening to a longtime friend give us the lowdown on life. Looking forward to ep#100 and beyond; keep on doing what you do because you’re rockin it, mah bean!
  • HedgeTrimmer79
    Calling all beans
    The blend of neuroscience and girl talk is fabulous. This is the only podcast I listen to as soo as it comes out.
  • Abbieknowsbest
    Binge listening this
    My friend recommending me this podcast and I haven’t stopped listening. I’m on episode 4. Love the banter, real talk, definitely makes you think in the best way possible. Have a listen, you won’t regret!
  • sam gould 12344
    Awesome
    Alexis is smart, funny and has given me so much information to use everyday!
  • gubbabj
    Grateful for the realness of this show!
    First episode I tried I was hooked. It’s worth it to start at the beginning and witness the growth of this pod too. Alexis is the best tour guide of the brain and all the messy humanness of life. Great podcast to throw on while gardening or working out. Tytyty✨
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