Refamulating

Refamulating is a podcast that celebrates different ways to make a family. A generation ago, most Americans were guided by the idea of the nuclear family: a mom, a dad, two kids, and a derpy dog. Many still have a family like this, and that’s great! But the numbers show it doesn't represent the majority of American households. In fact, there is no one-size-fits-all for what a family should look like. We’re collectively reformulating our understanding of what makes a family in today’s world. We call this refamulating, and this show invites us to understand it one story at a time. On each episode of Refamulating, host Julia Winston delivers emotionally honest stories of real people with nuanced experiences that census data could never tell us. Think queer parents, egg and sperm donors, surrogates, blended families, child-free folks, tales of communal living, and much more.

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  • Refamfan
    An important show
    This is such an important listen - so many of us don’t/won’t have a traditional nuclear family, and Refamulating makes it less lonely! Thoughtfully curated and told, these stories are building a new definition of family and how we make it.
  • Exceptional Podcast!
    Exceptional Listen
    Can’t wait for the next season! This podcast was engaging and informative. I felt seen and I looked forward to the topics on each episode. It’s well done and I can’t wait to see what’s next.
  • Refam Fan
    A peek into new ways to love
    I absolutely love this show and feel anyone and everyone would benefit from listening. It’s an instant empathy boost filled with good advice, thoughtful conversations and deep wisdom. Whatever your relationship with your family is, this will give you new ways to consider it and expand. 🤍
  • Sproules5
    Yes!!!!
    Always insightful, I want to call out season 2, episode 15 as amazing. Truly one of the most thoughtful examinations of foster care, biological parents, and the children involved. Thank you!
  • Mchalicehoward
    Big love for Refamulating!
    Such an important and deeply compelling podcast! Each story is told with such empathy and nuance, and each episode is masterfully produced. I’ve shared this podcast with just about everyone I know!
  • mike c g 123
    Groundbreaking!
    Refamulating is a groundbreaking podcast that shines a much-needed light on non-heteronormative and non-nuclear family structures. Julia skillfully navigates complex topics with compassion, intelligence, and a refreshing authenticity. Each episode offers thoughtful discussions that challenge traditional norms while celebrating the beauty and diversity of all kinds of families. Whether you’re part of a non-traditional family or just curious to learn more, Refamulating offers an inclusive and insightful space for everyone. It’s a must-listen for anyone interested in expanding their understanding of modern family dynamics!
  • Sarah Waxman
    Learn to think differently about love!
    Every time I listen to this podcast I am shown a window into another way to love. It is incredibly heartwarming and nourishing to see how different people love. Enjoy! It will open your heart and expand your mind.
  • Aly O123
    Authentic connection
    Refamulating connects you to a broader community, celebrating the diversity of family life while breaking down social norms. Julia has a way of connecting her listeners with the stories of others in a way that opens your heart and your mind. Whether your family is traditional or unique, this podcast makes you feel seen and supported, offering a fresh perspective on what truly makes a family.
  • lonniepb20
    Good Feelings All Around
    Every episode I have listened to (all of them) are engaging and heartfelt. I truly felt connected to each story. Give it a try you won’t be disappointed!
  • PepeTiger22
    Worth every second of listening
    This podcast really opens up space for understanding and relating to all the different kinds of families that exist in our world now. I cannot praise the work of these producers and creators enough for bringing such impactful and powerful stories to life. This kind of art is what we need to soften the rough edges of humanity.
  • CSB.Curator
    An amazing, original show
    Every episode is fascinating, insightful, and worth listening to!
  • Liamdm123
    Amazing storytelling & production!
    This podcast drew me in from the first episode! I listened to the entire first season in one day (it was only 5 episodes then) and waited excitedly each week after for a new one. It resonated with me on a deep level and helped me feel seen in my experiences.
  • LifeOnaPL8
    Empathetic and fascinating
    This show is terrific! Compelling real stories, expertly produced. I learn so much about myself and my own family relationships especially by listening to people who have much different experiences than mine. I most enjoyed the Family Secrets episode and the seahorse episode. There was a legit "gasp out loud" moment in the Family Secrets episode. I hope the show keeps up its great intersectional approach!
  • Holdoll38
    Most Heartwarming Podcast of 2024
    I am grateful for this refreshingly nuanced and heartfelt podcast.
  • jfhdhvjgjfhddhd
    Incredibly Important
    Eye & heart opening podcast! So important that a podcast like this exists — love & family are so important, but breaking down expectations of what that should & shouldn’t look like is so helpful to hear. Wonderful storytelling, great music and production.
  • r0xmys0x
    So Vulnerable and Real
    This podcast talks about many of the things my friends and I are trying to figure out right now in our own lives. I appreciate this vulnerable and thoughtful storytelling so so much. Listening to this is an empathy builder, for sure. And gives me a much wider perspective on what my future could look like.
  • Masserman4
    Expansive & Inspiring
    This transformational podcast has expanded my conceptual and perception of family through incredible storytelling with an inspriting host. I’m definitely a Refam Fam.
  • Adam Smiley Poswolsky
    Honest, empowering and heartfelt
    Love this podcast and how it explores the power of community, friendship and family in all it’s beautiful manifestations, stories and experiences. Beautiful work.
  • SarahH22V
    Joyful, full hearted, beautiful
    What a beautiful podcast. Everything Nora and her team does is so well produced too - just perfection. Love at first listen xox
  • Emanlaw99
    Refamulating really is a word!
    Thank you for finally giving me a word to describe my family life. My dad may have been one of the earliest refamulators. I love this podcast!
  • AlexB8286
    Amazing stories
    So well done and captivating!
  • Devoney P
    Many perspectives
    Unique and fun. Thank you for this!
  • Megx6
    Yes!
    Really enjoying this! Very well done and relatable!
  • LucyT000
    !!!!
    I was terrified nothing would be able to replace TTFN from Tuesday podcast rotation, but I am so glad to have Refamulating to replace it. Refamulating is made with the same care, thought, and comprehensivity to tackle a broad, sensitive topic. Bravo Jen, Clare and all of Feeling & Co!
  • 4 LULU
    So relevant!
    I feel like you really hit on something with Refamulating. This is so relevant and should be talked about more.
  • izzy500
    So good.
    This podcast is incredible - Julia and team are doing such important work in the world sharing these stories. Can’t wait for more!!
  • Chelsie DeLong
    Open Minded Podcast!
    What an amazing way to think about families in different lights. Thank you for opening up my mind and thoughts!
  • Julie in MN
    Diving into new ways we’re creating families
    Refamulating gets real about all our “non-traditional” ways of creating family ties. Authentic & engaging conversations! I’m hooked…hoping to hear more about Julia’s own experience with family & kids!
  • LMN225
    This show is everything we need and more!
    What a beautiful concept. This podcast is absolutely incredible. We are all connected and building lives differently than we thought. What a beautiful podcast to come home to! Thank you for making this for the world. I can’t wait to hear even more stories. 🧡
  • OutdoorJenny
    Love Refamulating!
    Thank you for this wonderful new podcast that takes the mystery out of the modern families! I am the mom of a blended family that extends in two directions and I am grateful for every member of our group.
  • lolo656
    Wow wow wow!
    Just gave it a listen on a whim and wow! So beautiful and so necessary to have this dialogue. Thanks for this incredible contribution and for making space for us all to feel like our families are valid and magical in their own ways!
  • LanaMeow
    THRILLED ALREADY!!
    I’m so excited for this new podcast by Feelings & Co! I already am in joyous heartfelt tears listening to the transition episode. Y’all are the best and I love you so much. This topic has been on my mind a lot as a millennial without kids who is questioning what family can mean to me as I grow old. Thank you thank you thank you 💜
  • Thebabyfacesittersclub
    A must listen!
    Loved every part, start to finish. From subject matter to production value it’s an all around great podcast. Looking forward to hearing more!
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